I do apologize for not writing in a while…its been hectic. Starting with the first day of my new class, life started out with landing in the emergency room one day due to a lot of pain. This visit will lead to several tests in the coming months and perhaps major surgery. Nothing serious…I pray. Yet the people who I expected to say something have been quiet; however, I have been getting support from strangers, good friends, and relatives…who I appreciate and feel blessed to have in my life.
Then, our community was hit was a tragedy called a school shooting. Three young people tragically passed including the shooter himself. The community is reeling. People around the community have reached out in support of the families of all including the young man who chose to commit such a terrible crime.
In the midst of this, as I wonder if I will be diagnosed with the big C (not yet, more tests will determine if so), I’ve also wondered – why do people stay so busy and then show up at funerals? Why don’t we stay in touch before a person passes or even is diagnosed with a terrible disease? Why does it take a tragedy before we realize that someone was facing issues in their life? This is not meant to judge anyone…but just a curious thought.
Yet, we need to support each other during both the good and not just the bad stuff…after all, God made us to be part of a community. Humans thrive when they have a support system, surrounded by loved ones. Perhaps if people knew they had this support, maybe there would be one less tragedy in this world?
I know it may not stop all tragedies like the one my communities and others have experienced in recent years in this country…but even if it was just one or maybe even two, that would be few less tears shed.
So think about it…who haven’t you spoken to a while that may need to hear from you even if they are going through a good time? Maybe inside they are facing turmoil too afraid to say something in fear that they will be judged. So, perhaps just a few words of encouragement will help them through that turmoil.
The encouragement can be a simple hello, how are you to even praying with them.
Maybe write a real letter or card sent through the postal system called snail mail.
So, in conclusion, I leave you with a verse that was preached in church yesterday to encourage those facing struggles now as they read this blog:
John 16:33 (NIV) “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcame the world!”
And, remember, even if you feel alone during a health crisis, loss of everything dear to you, or even something as simple as not passing a test at school that you needed to pass, God is with you and He does love you.
Finally, if you do need encouragement or even just prayer, please contact us so both my husband and I can pray for you…